The 3 Mindsets That Allowed Me To Become A Millionaire In My 20s

Summary

Today I want to share with you my journey in growing my business to doing a million within a year and a half… and the 3 key mindsets that have stuck with me throughout this journey.

It’s easy to look at all of the successes once shared on social media, but behind the glamor there are lots of failures that have led to important lessons being learned, internalized, hypothesized and finally tested.

The main principle you must understand before we delve into the 3 mindsets is the Mirror Principle: your reality is a reflection of your attitude towards it.

What does that mean? The lens of your perception, your relationship and what you think your reality to be, as such it unfolds.

Eg. if you think your reality to be a cruel mistress, apt evidence will appear to prove so & vice versa.

Here are the 3 mindsets that I share:

There are only blessings and blessings in disguise.

You are 100% responsible. Not to blame, but responsible.

It’s all a game, have fun.

Make sure you check the video out for detailed examples on how these 3 mindsets have stuck with me throughout this journey of entrepreneurship.

Leave me a comment with your thoughts/videos you’d like to see me make as well?

Transcript

quazi here and in this video i want to

share with you three of the biggest

mindset

shifts and basically the success

mindsets that i’ve

sort of carried on with me throughout my

whole journey that’s allowed me to grow

my business from zero to doing 150k a

month within a year and a half

and how i’ve navigated through this

journey through all the ups and downs

and the three biggest things the three

frames that have always stuck with me

okay i want you to stick around to the

very end of this video because i really

want to get deep down into this

and truly understand you know what makes

successful people successful

and why do they consistently and

you know always are able to maintain

their success without

squandering it and without

self-sabotaging without moving backwards

okay this was something that was

important for me to realize because

these mindset shifts

once you make them once you make the

realization you just naturally hold on

to them and they become a part of you

before i begin this video and to quickly

announce a couple of spots have opened

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of the video for the announcement on how

to sign up for that and

with that let’s get started so in this

video i want to talk to you about the

success

mindset and there’s probably a million

and one different videos out there

talking about success mindset

and talking about all the affirmations

you need to do and this and that and

everything that you need to do

what i want to share with you here is

purely my personal experience

and what’s actually worked for me and

what’s worked for our clients

and what they’ve used to become

successful and

this can get very very subtle so i’m

going to try my best to explain to you

all the subtleties and all

the nuances so that you actually make

these realizations and you can start to

use them immediately

okay so make sure you watch this video

and then re-watch it and re-watch it as

long as

it takes for this to sink in and for the

realization to happen but also i want

you to remember that if you don’t

even use this stuff at all the

realization won’t happen

because it’s one thing theorizing

another thing going out there and

testing these hypotheses and these

theories and making them your own making

them personal

okay so what i want to begin with is

that anything that you see around you

right now this

quote-unquote reality it’s moldable it’s

flexible

right so reality is flexible

and what do i mean by that if you

believe something to be true

it’s gonna happen if you don’t believe

it it’s not gonna happen everything is a

placebo

everything is a self-fulfilling prophecy

you know if you

think that medication is gonna help you

if you think that you’re gonna heal from

surgery before you go into it

then you’re going to heal if you think

you’re doomed then that’s probably

what’s going to happen

so everything is revolving around this

probabilistic

space and there’s a certain percentage

of things happening and a certain

percentage of things not working right

right so there’s always this uncertainty

there

and this uncertainty goes to show that

reality is flexible even when you think

that one thing is 100

certain and 100 correct sometimes it’s

not sometimes it just goes

completely different way right so in

that sense reality is very very flexible

and because it’s flexible that means you

can influence it the way you want

and this is where this whole reality

creation scheme and manifestation and

the law of attraction comes in

okay and within that there’s a huge

principle that’s been very very relevant

to me in my personal life and

you know what i’ve been going about

doing and what i’ve been sharing in the

channel this is what we call the mirror

principle

if you want to learn more about this

mirror principle by the way click up

here to check out a video on that

i detail it and i really talk about it

in depth we’re not going to go too much

in depth in this video if you want to

check that out then just click here i’ll

put it in the description as well

but what the mirror principle is is that

everything you see in your reality is a

reflection of your internal world

anything in your outer world is a

reflection of what is in your internal

world

okay and this mirror of reality

it reflects your attitude towards your

reality

okay what do i mean by that let me write

that down first

the mirror reflects your attitude your

internal world

consists of only attitude right it’s

only your

meanings that you’ve put onto things and

how you feel about certain things and

how you perceive them and what lenses

you wear so if you think something is

good then something’s going to be good

if you think you’re worthy then you’re

going to be worthy if you feel you’re

confident then you’re going to be

confident

right reality just confirms what you

already feel so it’s just like that

your hypothesis is always confirmed

right whatever your hypothesis is you go

out and test it

whatever you truly believe to be true

you’re going to find some proof of it

right this is where we come into

reprogramming the subconscious mind so

if you

program it with certain ideas you’re

going to find proof and evidence of

these ideas coming into existence

so if we keep reprogramming ourselves

with more positive ideas

and things that we want to see as

opposed to what we don’t want to see

then that’s what’s going to start to

happen

there’s a there’s a lot of subtleties

behind this because most of the times

when we think we want something we

actually don’t want that

we just want to avoid the opposite of

that

right so most of the time when people

want money they don’t really want money

they just want to avoid the lack of

money

so really think about that you know you

want money because you want to avoid the

lack of money

you want financial freedom because you

don’t want to be trapped so there’s

always the duality at play

but what happens is more of the feelings

more than 50

of it is on the negative and avoiding

the negative then actually the positive

this is why you move towards the

negative so the mind works in a focusing

manner

whatever you focus on you will move

towards it okay

so in that sense this mirror is

reflecting the attitudes that you have

about certain things

you’ve got to be very very sincere about

your attitudes and this is also why the

rich get richer and the poor keep

getting poorer right because the rich

see wealth around them they’re like oh

good i’m rich i have money more money

comes in

mirror mirror of reality reflects this

attitude that they have of money

oh i’m rich you’re rich okay let’s

reflect more of rich

and then poor people they’re like oh

i have bills to pay and i’m poor

but even though they might want money

they’re like oh but i have this bill to

play

pay but i have this obligation and this

commitment and i need to do this and i

need to do that

then reality gives them more of these

bills and commitments and obligations

right so this is how the mirror

principle of reality works

why am i telling you this before telling

you all these mindsets this is the

principle you need to grasp

before we actually move on to the next

part okay i’m going to keep this very

very concise

but at the same time i’m going to try my

best to really explain this to you so

that you can use it

right so now let’s get to the three

mindsets that i’ve used with actual

examples and how they’ve

affected me in my personal life and what

you really need to be successful

mindset number one there are only

blessings

and blessings in disguise okay let me

write that down real quick

there are only blessings and

blessings in disguise what do i mean by

that

the moment you start to divide up your

reality and everything that you see into

good and bad you’re

you have a problem there because the

moment you start to see good and bad in

things then

you’re going to start to discriminate

and you’re going to be biased

right and most of the times this bias

isn’t under your control it’s just the

one that has the most

emotional pull you want to avoid

being poor more than you want to be rich

and that’s why you

move towards poverty mirror reflects

that right

so understand that there is no good and

bad there’s just good and good in

disguise

simple as that when i started to adopt

this mindset everything started to go my

way

what do i mean by that in the month of

may in my business i had a zero dollar

month

okay so to give you a back story i have

a coaching business and

you know at realitycreator.com what we

do is we help uh

entrepreneurs take their businesses to

the next level you know from

five 10k a month to scaling up to 20 30

40k a month in their businesses

even more by helping them solve the

internal problem you know they don’t

have

a tactical strategic problem at this

point they have all the right tactics

and strategies that’s not working for

them they have an internal world

now what we saw what i saw was that when

i started this business back in february

2019

the first month i did well you know i

did 2k within this just the first month

starting up you know i had an existing

youtube channel and did very well

i had maybe a thousand maybe 500

subscribers

and uh it was just growing slowly slowly

slowly and

uh i had a couple of clients that came

in and i was very excited because back

then i was in college

and i didn’t want to go to the nine to

five right i wanted to do something that

i wanted to

get freedom basically financial freedom

as everyone calls it

now in that journey i saw february was

good 2k

march was maybe 3k

april was maybe 4k and then may the

month i graduated i went back down to

zero

and that absolutely devastated me

because i had so much pressure on me

because when i graduated i made the

choice not to go into the nine to five

route

but actually just just double down and

go full in on my business right and when

that zero

month happened it really shook my

certainty

and when it did that’s when i was

right

so this pressure that i put on myself

made me

very very insecure and big and this

insecurity started to

reflect out into my business okay my

internal world my attitude

started to reflect out into my business

so that’s why i experienced this zero

dollar a month

now how do you move past a zero dollar a

month without getting destroyed by it

well it’s supposed to destroy you you’ve

got to be destroyed in order to rebuild

yourself

so that’s what i exactly did i allowed

it to destroy me

so that i could recreate myself the way

that i wanted so when i started to see

the zero dollar month

as a blessing in disguise that’s when

the events that followed started to

change okay when i put a good meaning to

the zero dollar month

then next month i actually hit 5k

in june i had a 5k month and then july i

had an 8k month

and in august i had my first 20k month

october i went up to 50k

right so it just kept spiraling up and

up and up

so this is how if you start to realize

that there are only

blessings and blessings in disguise then

everything

that you perceive every meaning every

attitude that you have becomes positive

when every attitude becomes positive it

leads you to positive lifelines and

you know the events that follow become

more and more positive

okay so that’s how it worked for me

number two is responsibility and what do

i mean by that this kind of ties into

the first thing

uh the first mindset shift but by

responsibility i mean

you are 100 responsible for where you

are in life and what your life is

okay you’re 100 responsible for

everything around you

every single little thing even the tree

next to you and what i mean by

responsibility is not

blame i mean the ability to respond okay

i’m going to write that down

you are 100 responsible

so this essentially means that any

single event that happens from this

point onwards

you choose how you respond to it okay

any event that happens

you choose your response to it you

choose the attitude and the meaning that

you put onto it we forget that

we think that oh because a bad thing has

happened my

reaction has to be that this was bad oh

there were ups and downs in my life

you know the way i look at it now there

were just ups there were just things

that needed to happen for me to get here

today and for me to

go where i’m gonna go tomorrow right so

all of these things they’re all

blessings

and because of that it

dictates my response when i have this

overarching frame of my life that

everything is a blessing

and everything is a blessing in disguise

i choose now

to put a positive meaning and respond

positively

to every single thing that happens right

even if something goes wrong

i just respond positively because i know

it’s a blessing in disguise

so you’re 100 responsible and your

response

shapes the events that follow okay it’s

never really the action

that dictates what happens in your life

i want you to remember that it’s never

the action but the motive behind the

action

the motive and the intention behind the

action and the action itself they’re

whole

they’re one whole but just in different

physical aspects they’re just different

they’re separate aspects of one thing

right you understand what i’m trying to

say by this it’s like

the action without the motive is

pointless if you just dryly keep doing

something every single day there’s no

point

if there’s no intention there’s no

striving there’s no desire

behind it then it’s just gonna be

useless it’s just gonna keep you stuck

in a hamster wheel there’s no point

doing it you might as well not do it

you know i made a video about how you

don’t need to do anything to manifest

you don’t need to take action to

manifest and i truly still believe that

you don’t

the action is a natural part that will

you don’t have to go out there and keep

looking at all what do i need to do what

do i need to do

what you need to do first is get your

internal world right

because your external world is a

reflection of your internal but most

people use the external world

to dictate how they feel internally

that’s why they keep staying stuck in a

loop

right so if you look at the mirror right

if we have

two boxes and let’s say this is

e and external and this is i internal

what most people do is they see bad

stuff happening in their lives and

they’re like

i’m doomed and then i’m doomed

means my attitude towards my reality is

that reality causes doom

so the external shapes their internal

first

instead of the other way around instead

of you just ignoring

oh i’m seeing some bad stuff temporarily

but there are also some good stuff

but i’m sure that these these bad things

are actually blessings in disguise

instead of doing that they’re like

i’m doomed and then

now your internal shapes your external

because the mirror of reality says

you feel you’re doomed your attitude is

that of doom okay here’s more doom

so that’s how it happens so this is why

i stress the mirror principle so much of

my videos and

and you know all the time but number two

is responsibility and taking 100

responsibility

for where you are in life not blame it’s

not your fault

but you are still responsible from what

happens this present moment

from this point onwards okay

number three this was probably the

biggest realization i made

it’s all a game all of this is all a

game

okay so make sure you have fun

this is all a game have fun

why is this so important when the moment

you start to forget that it’s all a game

you become truly attached to an outcome

and then you suffer okay because the

the nature of life is ever-changing it’s

never going to be the same but you just

you lose sight of the game it’s like

someone being a professional athlete

right let’s say you are a football

player and then you just lose sight of

the game

and you get lost in all the logistics of

all i need to perform

i need to do this and i need to do that

and your expectations start to create

more pressure in you

and this pressure again reflects out in

your game and your

you start to perform terribly because

now you’re not even thinking about

having fun you’re not

present your imagination takes control

of you like oh what if this thing

that’s happened in the past happens your

memory and your imagination

take control of you so the moment this

game you start to forget that it’s a

game and this game becomes too serious

you’re and you need to start to

show yourself this

this is a game right and why was this

important for me why was this mindset

important for me in my journey

what i saw was that i started to get

really attached to certain routines like

oh i need to do this

and i need to do that oh god if i don’t

do this i’m you know if i take a

day off i’m

like i can’t take a day off i can’t take

a vacation

in order to achieve my goals i need to

do this this and this and this this and

this

so you put too much meaning on certain

things whenever anything in your life

gains an inflated sense of meaning

that’s when you create an imbalance in

the field of nature

i made a video about this too click up

here to check that out it’s

understanding your own importance levels

and when you become too needy

when you become needy and desperate life

withdraws that from you because

needy and desperation means i don’t have

it affirms the state and the attitude of

i don’t have

then the mirror of reality says you

don’t have okay

more of not having so this is why

whenever it’s

you start to lose sight that everything

is actually just a game

it’s time to show yourself that it’s a

game when i got attached to all of these

routines

and i saw that my results were suffering

because of this neediness and

desperation

i swear to god i saw like when i was

getting too

desperate on the clothes and like

talking to prospective clients they

could feel this neediness coming from me

and they’d be like they’ll be turned off

they’d be like oh this guy’s way too

needy for this

something’s not right so energy never

really lies

right and because of that i would

probably turn off a lot of clients and

maybe my videos were even

turning them off and they were like oh

something’s just not right about this

energy

so you’ve got to keep your energy right

and the only way to do that the best way

to do that

is by showing yourself that this is all

a game nothing’s ever too serious

okay if anything ever becomes too

serious time to show yourself it’s a

game

all right so let’s do a quick recap and

what i really

what we really talked about in this

video and essentially the biggest thing

i want you to take away from it is the

mirror principle

right and why certain events happen

in your life in certain ways and why you

can’t understand this cause and effect

cycle and really why all of this stuff

happens is

you forget to understand that your

internal world

reflects out into your external world

and how this happens is by the attitude

you have towards events

towards objects towards people whatever

let’s just call all of them events

right your attitude towards events

creates more of these

events like attracts like and this is

why the rich keep getting richer and the

poor keep getting poorer

another subtlety i forgot to recap about

is the

subtlety of do you really want what you

want or do you want it because you want

to avoid

the opposite the counterpart do you want

to really be rich or do you want to be

rich because you don’t want to be poor

every single desire starts with

resistance of

the opposite right you look in the

mirror you’re like oh sure i look fat i

want to be skinny

but most people can’t they fail to focus

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